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Sensual Massage For Women

Pleasure the lady in your life with sensual massage.

There can be no doubting that everyone loves to receive a massage and if it is given to you by your partner it is extra special.sensual massage for women beginning

The Sensuality of Massage

Sensual massage is more than just something sexual, it is a gift of something beautiful; a gift of your love, your patience and your care. When the gift is received it is received as trust, pleasure and desire. Sensual massage is more than just therapeutic massage because contained in the sensuality of massage is emotion and desire. Of course this type of massage is also therapeutic; for the body, the heart and the mind.

Women are by nature, very tactile. Watch any two women together and you see a lot of friendly touching going on. Women love to be touched and especially hugged; they love to walk arm in arm and hand in hand. The problem for them however, is that many men are not naturally tactile and so they have to teach their man what they need and how they need it. Time: When it comes to massaging the woman in your life, you need to set aside time for it. Don’t squeeze it in between two other events in the day. Leave your time open ended, so you can relax after and enjoy the afterglow.sensual massage for women; drinking wine

Place: Any warm comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed - turn OFF the mobile phones, send the kids out and disconnect the landline. If the weather is warm, why not go to a secluded secret place you may know, or even the garden if it is private? Having said this, it has got to be warm, bordering on hot. When lying still, receiving massage for a long period, the body cools down, whereas the one giving massage heats up. What is more, if you massage on the floor at home, the warm air in the room rises and so the coolest place is on the floor. So turn the heating up or throw a few more logs on the fire. If it is little chilly, cover her with soft towels and only expose the part you're massaging. Or there is always the bath?

Preparation At the beginning I stated that women are naturally more tactile than men but being tactile is more than just touching, it is feeling. Women love warm soft fabrics, cool colourful silks, large feathers and furs (nowadays synthetic). So if you want to prepare for the ultimate sensual massage, make sure you have to hand some sensual fabrics and feathers to trail over her body. You’ll have her purring in no time. Also make sure you have some good quality massage oil. There are a number of oils especially prepared for sensual massage. However, it is a good idea to let her smell it first. Don’t use oil she doesn’t like the smell of, otherwise you might as well try and using cooking oil and you know what that will get you?

A lovely sensual massage video but the voiceover is Spanish.



Beautiful sensual oils to please and pleasure her.


Women are sensitive sensual creatures; that is to say they love to absorb things through all their senses, so have some fragrant oil (in water) heating in an oil burner or incense sticks burning. Use a good quality and check she likes the smell first, or you can use plain baby oil. Also have soft music playing in the background but make sure it is music she likes. It can be really irritating being massaged with music playing that you don't like. Whilst on the subject; if you choose really appropriate music, you can get into a rhythm with music and it feels so good.sensual massage for women; kissing

Application

Ensure you have plenty of room to reach all around her and for this reason, the bed is not the best place. Best to put some duvets on the living room floor and turn up the heating. Make sure you are comfortable when massaging, it can be hard on the knees and back. It is best to kneel facing her body and in easy reach of the area you are massaging. Ensure the oil is in an easy pour bottle but if it is knocked over which it probably will, doesn’t get spilt. Pour some on your hands first and rub them vigorously together to warm them as cold hands on her back won’t be appreciated. However, they should soon warm up. Once you have rubbed the oil into your hands, repeat the process because generally you need more than you expect and it will also help to soften your hands up too. If you have rough hands, you should rub some hand lotion in before commencing.

Massaging her back:

sensual massage for womenIt is generally best to start on the back, so get her to lie on her front. If she is feeling a little uncertain, she will not feel so vulnerable on her front. Massaging her back first will soothe out a lot of her stresses and induce relaxation. Use your body weight to gently press down through your arms and hands. If you just use your hands and arms, they will begin to tire. Make sure your hands are relaxed and soft.

When you start, make sure you spread the oil fully over her back but only go down as far as her buttocks. Don’t be tempted just to hang around massaging her buttocks, even though it might be enticing to do so. Massage the tension out of her shoulders and lower back first. Use long languid movements up and down, side to side and diagonally. Let your hands run down her sides and your fingers glide over the sides of her breasts. Don’t press down on the spine but you can massage across her spine and you don’t just have to use your hands. You can use your forearms as this give wider and even pressure, and feels great.

Waist and lower back:

The waist is a very sensual area and it is worth spending some time massaging here. Use your hands wide open to cup her waist and caress it as your hands slide up and down. Use deep stroking movements and include the lower back in this too. She will love it if you press down on her sacrum, the lowest part of her spine, as this will press her pubic bone onto the surface below her (if firm) and release tension in her hips.

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Buttocks:

The buttocks are another sensual area and after some soft circular stroking, you can go really deep into the muscles; of course not so deep it causes pain. Also use long strokes going down her legs and up her back. Of course your hands can slip between her legs and massage her inner thighs too but avoid at this time staying between her legs, even though the temptation might be great. Sensual massage is all about anticipation and saving the best to last. Keep her waiting; keep her just off the boil!


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Legs:

Use long firm pressure down her legs but do not press hard over her knee joints and also watch out for varicose veins on her calves. These are thin wriggly blue veins which show near the surface of the skin. DO NOT PRESS HEAVILY HERE. Use both hands together to grip and slide up her thighs and up over her buttocks. You can kneel between her legs for this.sensual massage for women body to body

Body to body massage:

When giving a sensual massage, you are not restricted to what part of the body you use. Rubbing your chest on her back will be great for you both but a note of caution; know your lady's boundaries. If you have massaged between her buttocks, there might be a desire on your behalf for anal sex but don’t go there if she doesn’t want it. Don’t spoil the moment. Also add extra oil to her back, otherwise you won’t slide but don’t add too much, otherwise you might just slide off. Now it is possible your sensual massage may take on another dimension here but if not, continue on and massage her legs and feet.

Feet:

Beware, some people hate having their feet touched but if she loves it, you can massage her feet by bending her knee while she is still on her front and massaging her raised foot. Feet can withstand firm pressure, so you can really squeeze and stroke them at the same time. If she spends a lot of time on her feet, she’ll appreciate this. You can even use your knuckles to massage the souls of her feet but beware if she is ticklish, otherwise you might just get a kick in the teeth! As always go slowly and carefully. If you are unsure, ask her if the pressure is okay. If she squeals, you know it is too hard!

Massaging her front

Face and scalp:

It might be tempting to skip her face and scalp but she will definitely feel your love and care if you do, especially her face. It will be best to kneel behind her head for this and it is also a good place to massage the tops of her shoulders and her breasts. Go carefully over her face; use the soft fleshly parts of your fingertips. Trace the contours of her face with your fingertips and continue around her ears and down her neck to massage there. Also be prepared to improvise and do what feels good to her. sensual massage for women

Chest and breasts:

Give your lady a beautiful sensual breast massage and remember it is not just a pleasure thing but is actually good for her breasts. In China today, it is common for a woman to attend a beauty clinic for a breast massage but not a sensual one. For half an hour or so they will have their breasts massaged for therapeutic breast health. This also helps get rid of mon malignant lumps. So the longer you spend massaging her breasts, the better.

While kneeling behind her head you can reach down to massage her chest. Start at her upper chest just below her shoulders, and slide your hands down through the middle of her breasts to her belly and then up her sides to under her armpits and back to her upper chest. Repeat this as often as you like but keep her waiting a while before you fully massage her breasts. Each time as you come up slide closer to her breasts until your hands are sliding directly over them, gently carressing them as you pass. Make circular, squeezing movements of her breasts gently pinching her nipples and manipulating them with your fingers.

Breast massage is an extremely pleasurable experience for a woman and she will be enjoying all your stroking, so don’t be in a hurry, take your time.

Massage her breasts and nipples softly and only increase the pressure very slowly but again take it easy. It is also easy to massage her breasts whilst kneeling at her side, from this position you can reach much further down her body. Always assess whether she is enjoying what you are doing and don't be afraid to ask what she prefers.

Tummy:

You need to be kneeling at her side to massage her tummy. The tummy holds a lot tension so go easy here. Use circular movements in a clockwise direction, pressing softly around her belly button. You can also use crossways movements to include her waist again. She will love having this area massage and her waist is an erogenous zone, so take your time here. From here you can tease her by massaging around her thighs and between her legs. You can also go down the fronts and side of her legs and move back up between them.

Vagina & clitoris:

As any man will know, it is easy to get it wrong here but hopefully your girl will put you right. My only advice can be the softer the better to start with. Watch for her responses. It will be easier to know if you are getting it right, than wrong. What is more, don’t get offended if you don’t get it right. Be willing to ask her to show you and if necessary, let her do it. It can be great to watch!sensual massage for women using vibrators

Vibrators:

A vibrator can be a wonderful tool in sensual massage, especially if it has a powerful vibration; not necessarily for entering her but for running it over her body. She will love the feeling of the vibrations flowing through her skin, especially around her breasts, and around and in her vagina. How you use it from there is up to you. Tease her, excite her and go gently.
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Blindfold and bondage massage:

It can be a very sensual thing for a woman to be tied to the bed and blindfolded whilst receiving sensual massage. This is ultimate trust, so don't break the trust she gives you. Of course you don't have to do both, you can do either. If she is uncertain, just try blindfold massage first and she can then take it off at any time. Remember go slowly and carefully, and you will bring her to sensual heaven.

Last piece of advice: Sensual massage is a giving thing, so don’t be demanding and be patient. Also your massage might be so great and relaxing, she might fall asleep. If she does, let her sleep, she probably needs it. There is always later.

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Another lovely erotic massage video and great if you're learning Spanish.



Seduction & Sensual Massage For Women

sensual massage for women; drinking wineSensual massage is the kind of approach that goes wonderfully well with a romantic dinner by candlelight. Take her out for an intimate dinner and then make your move, but instead of getting straight to the intercourse, surprise her with a massage. Let her know that her body is driving you crazy and that you want to touch every single piece of her. This is a time to put your problems and worries aside and focus solely on making her feel hot and sexy. Sensual massage is not a hasty affair, but takes a good long time and it features a lot of touching in the most intimate places. It’s not the kind of massage you would give to just anybody because it’s meant to bring out passion, awaken the senses and come to an explosive end with a satisfying orgasm.

You will probably want to keep a romantic CD or two handy in order to heighten the mood. Massage supplies also include candles and incense, the massage oil, some clean towels and a clean sheet which is bound to get all messy and sticky at the end of the massage session. You should start by massaging softly because the first thing you want is to help your lover relax and get into the right mood. Tease her a bit by playing with the erogenous zones, but avoid the breasts and vagina. Go slow and focus on long, languid strokes while rubbing your body against hers. Find your pace and make sure you don’t leave out any part of her body.And when you finally reach the most important part of the massage, keep in mind that you should not go for it like a maniac. Maintain the same pace and don’t forget to ask for permission first. Some people don’t actually appreciate that level of attention and might feel too uncomfortable to go all the way. Start by asking her how she feels and if she’s enjoyed the massage so far and then ask her if she wants you to go further. If she says yes, massage her private parts starting with the outer lips and finishing with the clitoris and G-spot. If you’re both comfortable with the use of toys, use a vibrator on her vagina; she won’t mind.

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