Sensual Massage For Men
Sensual Massage For Men is written for anyone who wishes to massage their man, whether woman or man. Massage is a wonderful way to please your partner and show him you care for him. It is also a very good way of creating trust between you and him, especially if it is a new relationship where trust is very important to build. The fact is that everyone likes to be massaged. It is a wonderful feeling to have someone run their hands over your body, especially if you are naked. Skin to skin is a beatiful thing. I have written more about how massage can benefit a relationship on the specific page about
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Purpose of massageMassage can basically have four functions. Firstly therapeutic, to help ease muscular tension and psychological tension and also ease fibrous muscle tissue caused by old injuries; secondly sports, to resolve muscular injuries often caused by over training and poor preparation; thirdly, beauty massage for pampering and just feeling good and fourthly sensual, to relax and also stimulate your partner possibly as a prelude to sex.
Of course it is the fourth reason we are concerned with here and the important words to know are ‘prelude to sex.’ And this is my first point. Don’t pretend that massage is just massage, when really all you want to do is have sex. Sensual massage is part of the act of seduction and it doesn’t cut out the pleasantries.
Sensual massage is generally done without clothes, at least at end. For a start it is not pleasant to massage over fabric, especially some of the synthetic ones and secondly it is far less pleasurable for the receiver. Better to free of clothes for both of you but if you or your partner are uncertain – keep your pants on until it is the right time to get in the buff!
PreparationsMake sure the room is warm, it will feel cooler later for the one receiving and it is also cooler if he is lying on the floor. Make sure you won’t be disturbed, so best turn off the mobiles; a phone call can really spoil the moment – and check to make sure the door is locked. Play some music you both like and not techno or garage; it just doesn’t suit massage and isn't relaxing. You can use the bedroom and bed but better to use the living room floor and some soft mats or a folded duvet for him to lie on; also use a small pillow under his head. Light some incense sticks or burn some sweet oil. Atmosphere counts for a lot, so make the environment as attractive and comfortable as possible. What to wear?I'm sure your guy will want to be naked and maybe you will want to be too but there is also nothing wrong in leaving some clothes on, pants maybe, which can be removed as the action gets going! Also as the one giving the massage, you might want to start off partially clothed and remove them as you warm up!! Some sexy lingerie should get him excited before you start. If it is a cool day and the room is a little cool, start by covering the areas you're not working on with towels.Sensual Massage TechniquesWhere to start?Ask your partner if he would prefer you to start on his front or his back. I always like to start on the person's back because everyone loves their back massaged and also the person often feels more secure lying on their front, at least until they have relaxed a little and know they can trust you. Also by massaging the back first, you can save the special places to the end. When he is comfortable, you can start. Hopefully you’ve already got the oil to hand and it is a good quality oil with pleasent scent that you both like. Baby oil will do but it is a bit runny and it doesn’t smell. Start by kneeling by him; make a small well in one hand and pour about a teaspoon of oil into it. If you guy is hairy, you might need twice that amount. Rub it well into both of your hands before applying.
BackBegin to apply the oil on his lower and upper back. Make long languid strokes and don’t rush. Lightly cover the whole of the back with oil before you start massaging more deeply. If your man is hairy and you feel your hands are dragging over him, use more oil but don’t overdo it. Don’t want him like tuna in sunflower oil! Once the area is covered, start to make some massaging strokes up and down this trunk, side to side and diagonally, even figure of eight. Use moderate pressure and get the feel of his body, feel the contours and shapes of his muscles; continually let your hands follow the form and shape. Ask him if the pressure is okay; generally a guy will prefer a slightly stronger pressure. Keep your arms fairly rigid and let the movement come from your upper trunk. Take it steady, beware of your own breathing and his. When massaging large areas, you can use your hands spread wide, fingers rigid like big claws or your fists, or your forearm and even your elbow. Be careful not to put pressure on his spine but let your movements flow up and down either side on the large supporting muscles and also across ways. Imagine you are ironing – iron out your man’s stresses to soften him up.
Lower back:A lot of people have tension in their lower back and so this a good area to give deep and slow strokes, moving up and down either side of the spine. It is great to use your forearm here, make long languid movements including figure of eights. You can also really press deeply on the sides of his waist using wide open hands.Note: never put pressure directly on the spine or massage him if he has backache.Buttocks:If you need more oil on your hands, add more. It is great to give and receive massage on the buttocks and is especially great for sensual massage and you really can really grip some flesh here and maybe you can delve between his legs a little too. Use lots of kneading on the flesh of his buttocks and also slide your hands up his body and down his legs too - he will love it. Remember oil and condom don’t mix and can cause a condom to break!Sensual massage video of a woman massaging a man - the voice-over is in Spanish though. Body to body sensual massageAs you massage his back, let your body lightly rub against his, your breasts/chest sliding over his buttocks and up his back; you will drive him crazy. Lower your weight gently onto him and slide your body up and down slowly over his. Use your body to massage his.Sensual HairIf you've got long hair, let it flow over, up and down his body. If you haven't, you can still stroke his body lightly with your hair and head.Legs:Don’t stop at his buttocks, continue down his legs with lots of long stroking movements. Run your hands down the backs of his legs and then back up on the inside. It is up to you how much you tease him! The thighs are lovely muscles to massage. Use long languid strokes on his legs and if he is a runner or cyclist you might like to soften out his tight calves too but don’t press too hard, cause it will hurt! Also BEWARE of varicose veins – blueish veins near the surface; steer well clear of them.Sensual massage on the front of his body.Face:When massaging the face, you have to be very careful and loving, with precise strokes around the contours of his face. It is a skillful job here but at very least you can massage his temples, cheeks and chin. You can also give his scalp a heavy rub with your fingertips but don’t add any oil to your hands. If too oily, wipe them first.
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Feet: Don’t avoid the feet unless you or he really don’t like touching them or being touched. The feet do an awful lot of work for us and deserve some reward. You can squeeze them real tight and you can press as hard as you like on the souls, although it may be a little painful. Use your knuckles to run up and down the souls. If your man is ticklish he might kick you – try stronger pressure or try tying him down!!! And last but not least! The penis and testicles: It’s always best to leave that to last – keep him hanging on! I don’t need to tell you how to massage this. However, add a little oil and it will work wonders but remember scented massage oil does not taste good and condoms don’t like it either!
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